Troubled Relationship E Cards

You have probably heard of successful romance stories in cyberspace. But not everyone gets lucky. What red flags in online relationships should men and women watch out for?

Some Internet relationship red flags

  • Cyber lover is often good with sweet talk, but derides personal questions

You may hold dear the offline notes, emails, or phone calls you receive from your online mate everyday. Yet, such thoughtfulness could be masking some truths. Perhaps he/she hopes that you would not doubt him/her. Yet, the moment you inquire about something personal that you are curious about, he/she says, "I don't question you," or "If you don't trust me, then stop talking to me." When you get such response, better assess the situation.

Remember that a sincere online lover will not shy away from questions about his/her activities. He/She is even willing to either tell you about other chat buddies or lets you see his/her chat directory list to assure you. However, you also need to be wary of mates who either badmouth their exes or are the kiss-and-tell types because they can do the same to you.